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Reply to "Sad because I feel like I'm not cut out to have another child"
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[quote=Anonymous]Having 1 is fine OP, but also you don’t have to make a forever decision right now. You could feel totally different once your firstborn is 3 or 4 and more independent. Fully verbal, potty trained kids who can actually do activities with you are way more fun than the baby stage. In a few years you may decide the newborn hell year is worth going through to have another one. Or you might not. Either way is ok! I have 3, but after a rough delivery with my 2nd wasn’t if I could do it again. But 4 years later I couldn’t let go of wanting 1 more and we decided to have a third. Conversely I have a friend who had always wanted a big family and stopped at 1 because she couldn’t bring herself to go through it again. Feelings change all the time, so try to just put the thought to the side for now.[/quote]
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