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[quote=Anonymous]Someone told me when I was 19 that the worst people who are going to hurt you, is every member of your family . He was so right. I think nowadays, people are searching for meaning in their lives, and when they realize their family doesn’t treat them well, they move on.

Seriously, families are so complicated. Who are you in yours—the people pleaser, the peacekeeper, the scapegoat, or the golden child? Who’s the narcissist? Does your MIL respect your boundaries? Is there preferences? Is there passive-aggressiveness, hypocrisy, or even competition? What else?

People can be so immature. Most of them aren’t able to talk honestly about what bothers them. They bottle it up, stack all these emotions, and then pretend everything is fine. Personally, I’ve never been able to pretend. If I’m mad at someone, you’ll see it on my face right away—no hiding it!

At the end of the day, people are free. We’re all looking for meaning and a better life for ourselves and our children. I am sure something better is waiting for the one who takes the decision to say no. 
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