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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I bet most people who have been poor help more people than those who have never been poor.  I am OP and I pay my brother's phone and utilities, paid for all of my mothers extras, and my entire career has been in public interest law.[/quote]

You are going to regret this eventually. Ask me how I know. One, because the helping never ends, and how you help in one way begets more helping--you help with getting a house, then you need to commit to visiting them at that house and helping them there, even if it far away. And two, the people you are helping see your aid as so normative that they don't really see it as help and think they have achived what they have despite "challenges", so they feel special about that, as if they have actually worked harder and achived more than you, because you had it "easy".

Also are you African American? Welcome to the "black tax". Stop paying the "black tax". [/quote]

This is PP again, to add, regarding OP's post: people who claim "I didn't get any help", yes, did get help from family like little $$ gifts, help filling out forms, government assitance, etc, but they see getting these things are part of their smarts in getting things they need, they don't see it as help, but ingenuity on their part. [/quote]

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