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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If other people ask me to solve their problems, they might not like the solution, which is tough love. [/quote] Jesus Christ, this is how you think about the person who birthed and raised you? [/quote] NP To me a parent is someone who does things for their kids, not the opposite. I would do anything for my kids but I don't want them to worry about me. If I were a burden to my kids I would feel like I failed as a mother. It's my job as an adult to take care of myself![/quote] OP stated that she was a *good mother* It’s wrong to judge her by your standards today. [/quote] My standards are simply that a good parent to adult kids does not ask their adult child to take care of them financially because they made bad choices over and over again. It's very selfish. I'm really surprised people think it's normal! Being a good parent to minor kids doesn't excuse pulling this on your adult children or justify it.[/quote]
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