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[quote=Anonymous]OP here again. Thank you for all the thoughtful and insightful replies - some of the resources mentioned upthread I've never heard of so I'll begin to explore those.

The bankruptcy has already been paid for and is rolling so backing out of that isn't an option at this point. The car is a source of bad feelings for the family - she HAD a paid off, very decent vehicle, one that had JUST been paid off, and on a whim, without consulting anyone for help or advice, decided that she needed a different type of vehicle and got screwed on the trade in and loan/payments. We didn't know about that purchase until all was said and done. Then came the job loss, yes, likely due to early cognitive issues. It's difficult to know the details surrounding that because naturally she isn't entirely forthcoming. We are all for her going out and job searching - I agree the right situation would be positive for her but we'll see how that goes.

Another thing that could be considered is disability. She does have a condition that would qualify that is getting worse with age. Not sure at all about the rules and process there.  Sigh, it's all too much and based on many similar threads on this forum, it appears I'm not alone. [/quote]

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