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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If other people ask me to solve their problems, they might not like the solution, which is tough love. [/quote] Jesus Christ, this is how you think about the person who birthed and raised you? [/quote] NP To me a parent is someone who does things for their kids, not the opposite. I would do anything for my kids but I don't want them to worry about me. If I were a burden to my kids I would feel like I failed as a mother. It's my job as an adult to take care of myself![/quote] Not allowing your kids to help is a burden in itself. (I say that as a daughter; I don't have my own kids so no, I am not expecting anyone to bail me out.) I'm not saying she has to move in with you and you buy her Prada bags - but just giving her a tough love routine, that's very harsh and cold. Barring some circumstances or history that you feel make that the right thing to do.[/quote]
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