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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you should have set more firm boundaries earlier in her life. Why does she think she can persist until you give up?[/quote]

Like I said, I am just venting. DCUM is a safe space to vent.  When you set clear boundaries, there is always resistance. I am an only parent and have shouldered being a mom, dad, and sibling for at least 10 years.  [/quote]

How are you the sibling?[/quote]

It’s figurative. I am the older sister that she never had. For example, we play competitive soccer together now. We are teammates. It brings in a different dynamic than being a parent.[/quote]

There’s your problem. [/quote]

So it’s ok to shit on her teammates and her mom? Shouldn’t she be nice to everyone? Guaranteed how she treats her mom is an example of how she treats others. She may tone it down a bit because he friends will drop her in the way her mom can’t. But she does this because it works.[/quote]

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