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[quote=Anonymous]This is happening to me now. My father passed away and the large house, that my sister and her husband live in with my mom, is in my mom's name.
My mom has already decelerated that I should be happy with one apartment in this three story 6 apartments on different levels house.
I am getting a whole one level! When I mentioned, ok, can I get the building that dad built close by, that is a garage/workshop, she said no. Not only that, but one of the apartments dad made for me and my family so we will stay there when visiting. It was very clear who it was for and who paid for it and why.
My sister has taken over it completely, and taken over the ground level apartment, in addition to all she uses as it was. Mom has now turned the story into, no, it was never for you and your family! I am not even asking to live there, I am just asking why when we visit, less and less often, we can't stay there, and they need 4 apartments over 3 different levels.
I already gifted my part of the grandma's house and property (my grandma) to my sister. And that is now, but that is worthless, nothing at all to have. It is a big rural property. Sister works, but on and off, BIL has not worked i over 16 years.
Mom watched their late in life two year old, while BIL takes naps.
None of this is new though, I was and still am mom's scape goat.
Sister is the golden child.[/quote]

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