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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom is in assisted living near my brother after my dad’s death. Almost everyone they know has already passed. She has dementia. I can’t imagine flying her body in a casket to Maine for a Catholic funeral in a church in a town she hasn’t lived in for five years and where no one would come since all her friends are dead followed by a burial in a town one hundred miles away where my dad grew up. Oh, and in places where the ground freezes all winter you have to come back in spring for a funeral. Not sure what we will do. It will likely be only her children and spouses. [/quote] Same with my 95 year old mil. She has very extensive detailed demands regarding flying her from TX to VA, types of services and burial. Her children are now old and tired and she has no friends. [/quote] Oh brother. Does she have a burial plot purchased in VA? Would she alternatively like her ashes flown and spread around VA? [/quote]
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