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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I appreciate all of your replies. I forgot to mention that the main reason I didn’t break up with him immediately is that he’s had serious issues with depression in the past, including inpatient mental health hospitalization, and I was afraid this could trigger him to do something dangerous.

But I now realize I can’t control anyone else’s behavior and I have to look out for my own health and safety.[/quote]

The above reinforces very strongly that something like Al-Anon could benefit you. You really need to finally be able to convince yourself that you cannot control/are not responsible for anyone's behavior but your own. Yes you have to draw your boundaries with kindness, but someone else's response to your boundaries isn't your fault.[/quote]

Are you a troll, OP? How is it you described this as your 1st healthy rx?

Do you have children? If yes, do not date until they are adults. Work on your codependency in the meantime. Only someone really messed up would have had ANYTHING to do with that guy.[/quote]

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