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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I appreciate all of your replies. I forgot to mention that the main reason I didn’t break up with him immediately is that he’s had serious issues with depression in the past, including inpatient mental health hospitalization, and I was afraid this could trigger him to do something dangerous. But I now realize I can’t control anyone else’s behavior and I have to look out for my own health and safety.[/quote] The above reinforces very strongly that something like Al-Anon could benefit you. You really need to finally be able to convince yourself that you cannot control/are not responsible for anyone's behavior but your own. Yes you have to draw your boundaries with kindness, but someone else's response to your boundaries isn't your fault.[/quote]
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