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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I found out I was pregnant with our third baby this weekend. We are both 41. My husband is raging mad and immediately was pushing for termination.

Truthfully I’ve wanted a third and we did not use birth control but with two young kids we did not sleep together much so chances were low. I was however coming to terms with only having two kids and had begun to purge baby items etc. Our kids would be about 6 and 3 when the third baby would be born.

I’ve always been pro life but can see the benefit now faced with this of termination. I feel awful admitting that. My husband is adamant the finances are not there with private tuition, needing a larger home and car. We have outgrown our current home but with high interest rates we have not moved yet. We both do well, but with saving for the future with colleges and private tuition and all the things that come with an additional child he is so angry at me and I know it would be nine months of misery. Anyone have a similar experience? He keeps saying he should have gone through with the vasectomy against my desires. 
I’ve had one ectopic between kids so I have an appt today to see if that is the case and I can’t help but hope it is so I don’t have to make a decision myself. [/quote]

If he didn't want more children why didn't he get a vasectomy?!  I would tell him to shut up and you are married to a world class @$$hole.[/quote]

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