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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m 10 years post separation because of cheating and we do all holidays together at my house. ILs come but stay at his house or a hotel. It’s so nice for the kids that we are able to not make their holiday chaotic by traveling to each person. It’s really not hard 10 years later because I don’t GAF. The 1st year might be hard. Do his parents not know? I’d let them come but not stay.[/quote] That’s really nice. I think they half know but are in denial. Denial is a big thing in their family. The denial piece is part of why I don’t want to have everything as normal bc I think it will be too much for me to kind of navigate a ‘pretend everything is totally fine’ model - but in an ideal world for the kids I would be able to do that [/quote] Do the kids know you are separated?[/quote]
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