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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tips? Just cancel. He can call his parents to let them know that you all are separated. When they ask why, he can tell them that he cheated.

[/quote] THIS X10000000000000. I wish I had forced my STBX to tell my edlerly parents. But he's such a coward he would have f$%ed that up too.  This is also my first holiday season as a newly single person. Why would you pretend anything for the sake of this person who betrayed you? Perhaps when he was sticking it elsewhere these thoughts should have crossed his mind. "Oh drat. This will really make things a right pickle for the holidays." But the only thought that crossed his mind was how quickly to unzip his pants. Repeat after me "OH WELL."  The new normal is weird but you would be insane to pretend things are ok and you should proceed as normal to spare his parents. Not your job. FWIW my college kid announced they will be spending Xmas with me and not with their father. I had assumed we would do some kind of split day visits or Xmas Eve/Xmas day but dc is like "nope, this is what I want." Hang in there.  We've got your back.[/quote]
Why didn’t you tell your elderly parents? Why was the onus on him? Were you also cowardly? [/quote]

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