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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm all in favor of men doing their share but don't understand this post. What are you asking for? For him to find part time child care help?

If so, might I suggest that, rather than hiding his clothes, you just realistically think about what's fair and what you are capable of doing, and then tell him. So if it\s too hard to manage laundry because you are pregnant and have another child tell him that: honey, I'm too exhausted to keep doing your laundry so you'll have to do it. Maybe I'll be able to get back to it once you find us that extra child care I've been talking about. Repeat as necessary for things like making his dinner, cleaning up, doing errands for him, etc.

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She’s asking him to contact his HR to find out if they have a back up childcare benefit. She can’t do that for him. [/quote]

DP, Our HR benefits responds to spouses on the plan. That, of course, is a different issue than how house/kid stuff should be split between spouses [/quote]

I’ve never heard of this and I’ve never contacted my spouses HR. Her husband can take a few seconds out of his day and email HR. [b]She’s carrying a baby for 9 months and he can’t spend a few minutes sending an email. Ridiculous[/b] [/quote]

The laundry thing isn’t the best idea but her husband isn’t pulling his weight. Sounds like she’s working full time without full time childcare. Her husbands job may have a way to give them more childcare but dh is too busy and lazy to email hr. I would be pissed if I was pregnant and this happened to me. She needs a break now more than ever.

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+1 I don’t agree with revenge but PPs are enjoying calling OP a loser WAY too much. It’s filling a need in them. And it’s unkind.[/quote]

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