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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op sounds like you don’t want advice necessarily. You seem to want commiseration. But a lot of us can’t commiserate because we would never let it happen. [/quote]

What would you all do differently? I am all ears[/quote]

Cut her off. If she can’t behave, give her one last warning about what will happen and if she won’t follow it, cut her off. She’s over 18, she’s a legal adult. Change the locks as someone said, don’t give her the car, etc etc. She is wreaking havoc because you allow her to.

It’s been going on for years, nothing seems to have helped and she’s a legal adult. So you have only two options - put up with it or kick her out of her life. There are no other options. Pick one. [/quote]

Kick her out of YOUR life is what I meant.

Also, mental health issues she has that you mentioned? Once again - decide if you are willing to have her have whatever issue flare up as a result or you’d rather live in terror. Unless she’s going to commit suicide if you stop interacting with her, I’d say let it play out. [/quote]

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