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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What’s the definition of worry? I have one kid in college that is doing very well…and honestly go days without really giving much thought at all to how that kid is doing…certainly don’t worry about anything.[/quote] I think part of the issue is my kids (and dh really) tell me every little worry and problem: a deadline coming up, a grade drop, missing a rehearsal, worries about big things...So all this negative stuff they have going on becomes my mental burden. I don't want this to continue in college because when I am aware of their issues big or small, I worry and take it on and it affects my mental health and focus on myself, my work, my life. I personally never told my parents anything and handled my own life. I WANT to be blissfully ignorant, but I can't really tell my kids to stop communicating openly with me.[/quote]
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