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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I think about divorce and being single again, one thing I’m anxious about is new men seeing my c-section scar. It doesn’t look good at all, despite even having a scar revision. [/quote]

DH here:  While men are visual, this is something that literally zero men care about.  It’s simply not an issue.[/quote]

We need an ama man thread. Is an extra five pounds ok?[/quote]

Lol that thread would be a train wreck.  The answer to this question, though, is that most men have no issues with a small amount of extra weight.  (There are some, though, who highly prioritize it, we used to tease one of my friends about his “strict height/weight” requirements for dating. In his defense, he held himself to a very strict standard on that issue as well, and again this was relatively unusual in my experience.)

For most men, though, it kind of breaks down like this:  a lot of it comes down to how the extra weight is distributed.  Most men are attracted to a traditionally feminine kind of body shape, and so long as that shape is generally kind of preserved, there is way more margin for error than most women think on a few extra pounds. But attraction falls off of a cliff when someone is overweight to the point where there isn’t any of that kind of shape anymore.  Apple-shaped and small-busted women have less margin for error than other body types.  Does that make sense? [/quote]

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