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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I have been together for 15 years, married 10, have two children under 5.  He has no interest in any intimacy with me - we spend time together, talk, laugh, we’re of course stressed and busy with two full time jobs and not the easiest kids.  But I don’t understand why he seems to have zero interest in me romantically.

I feel like I’m raising children with a roommate or friend sometimes.  I love him and absolutely don’t want to divorce him but I’m just baffled.  I try to initiate (both pretty obviously and in more subtle ways, trying to see if approach made a difference) but nothing happened.

I’m slightly overweight (bmi 26-27) but that’s the same size as when we got married so I don’t think it’s that my appearance has drastically changed.  I’ve raised this with him many times and he just says he knows and should do better.  Is he cheating?  But how, he’s always home, doesn’t travel for work, literally not sure when that could happen.  Does he find me repulsive? Could it just be the stress of work and kids?  I know no one can say for sure but if you’ve been in this boat and figured it out one way or the other do you have any advice?  Sorry I’m venting and just really sad it’s come to this, I just want to be with my husband, is that so much to ask?[/quote]

This is not uncommon with men. I know it's very frustrating for women and hard to understand. [/quote]

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