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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some folks who go "over-the-top" seem like they desperately want/need validation and attention for it, which is what I find annoying (not the actual decorations, etc).  My SIL is like this -- makes a big deal about all of the effort she went through for each party, posts literally dozens of staged photos (and no candids that include real kids having fun), and is constantly talking about how crafty and creative she is.  So while I enjoy doing some of the same things that she does in terms of throwing a party, I can't stand going to her parties, which she treats like her personal art show, complete with an intense need to get positive feedback.  With folks who don't have this attitude, I love the "over-the-top" parties.[/quote]

I have one friend who enjoys throwing a few elaborate parties a year, but they and seem effortless and relaxed, and so the guests have a great time. Another friend also likes to host elaborate parties but they feel like showcases for her efforts as she points out everything she did and how it fits the theme or how long it took her to think of the idea/to find it online/to craft it. She needs endless validation and appreciation for everything there and if it's not received at the party she holds what feels like a post-party wrap up. I know she enjoys all the planning, but the end result is off-putting and overshadows all the cool party stuff she does. Not saying you are doing this, but it's all about the vibe.[/quote]

10:27 here. I encouraged OP to do what gives her joy, but I have to agree with these PP's. We all know people like this and they're super annoying. [/quote]

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