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[quote=Anonymous]OP, saying this kindly, but you need to immediately curtail any and all off-campus errands; this includes joyrides (just to get out and about), voting and any and all doctor appointments. These days are over. Yes, visit but you need to re-think what appointments are medically necessary. I’d argue no dental cleanings, no preventative care and any and all meds need to be managed in-house. Review/determine if your mom has a DNR order and update. Make multiple copies and keep posted and with you at all times. Is your mother on meds that are prolonging her life? Blood pressure meds? Coumadin? If she’s this far into dementia she needs a different model of care and help with ADL. I’m surprised the facility hasn’t forced your hand and placed her in skilled nursing. I’d also consider hiring a private duty nurse for some respite care for you. [/quote]
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