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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Other than reprimands, what kind of consequences does she get for the aggressive behavior? That seems to me to be the number one place to start because an 11 year old biting is alarming. The lying is bad and needs correcting, but I don't think it is as out of the range of normal as the aggression. Kids are going to deny culpability and try to shift responsibility when they are caught in bad behavior. In the cases you mention, don't ask her why she did or didn't do something- just call her out on what you know she did and go from there.[/quote] Agree about the lying. It’s stemming from OP’s highly dysfunctional approach, which is to react verbally and spar with her, instead of calmly imposing pre-determined consequences. [/quote] +1[/quote]
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