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[quote=Anonymous]It is possible that your anger outbursts make DD anxious, and sometimes she may be provoking you to get to the anger, rather than waiting for it to happen. DD and I got into a dynamic like that, during the start of her tween years. It took a lot to stay calm, but when she stopped getting me to lose my temper, her behaviors diminished. (Or maybe she got older and matured, and didn't need to resort to these behaviors anymore.) Do you have a spouse and do they have recommendations for how to bond with DD? You say she plays several sports. Do you go to watch? Do you drive there/back? The car is a good place to bond, but you have to do it on her terms. Stay quiet until she starts talking. Maybe see if she's willing to listen to a podcast or audiobook together. I think the bonding will be key, not only for her, but also for you, you'll get to know her as a person and give her more of the benefit of the doubt during outbursts.[/quote]
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