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[quote=Anonymous]You speak with such a sense of superiority, authority and in such an abrasive fashion when in fact it's your pain over your father's actions that's your issue.  You lash out at me like I'm your father, sweetheart I'm not him, nothing like him. 
If you knew anything about Alzheimer's you'd know that no two victims are alike.  The saying in the Alz community is: "that when you know one person with Alzheimers, you know one person with Alzheimer's, that is all.

Sweetheart if you think watching your love turn into a vegetable ove the last six years goes quickly all I can say is wow! You really are a very angry person, with a totally distorted sense of time and values.  My heart goes out to you and I pray your hatred doesn't infect your children.

Six years of the agony of listening to, while she was still able to communicate, my DW wishes to die, to commit suicide, of watching the disintegration of your love, your life, your plans ... well it hasn't been a quick walk in the park .........and you bring up divorce, after 50+ years of marriage a thought that never entered my mind once.  
What a cold heart coniving bitch you must be. 
Asset protection??   Do I appear an idiot, upon DX  I had an Eldecare attorney take care of that soley motivated from a Medicaid look back possible situation.  Divorce my DW you are truly lacking in any sort of understanding of the work LOVE !  Were the situation reversed I'd want my DW to be happy.

Only a very disturbed  mind could mention Hospice and party time in the same breath. (Think about that)  
That is just plain perverce .  Hospice care, in my home, not a hospital or facility (by my choice)  is now palliative care, assurance that my DW will have no pain in passing.  The Hospice MD and Nurse have repeatedly made me aware that I can speed up the process by choosing to withhold food and water and my DW won't know the difference or feel any discomfort  
Oh yea speed up her passing because I'M SURE YOU THINK IT'S TIME TO PARTY YOU SICK SOB.  
No I havn't been able to make that decision yet, I don't want to let her go, selfish of me? perhaps.  I feed her like an infant, and she licks water from my finger tip. Too bad you can't spend 24 hrs here and see what love is all about... A word of advise, lose the hate that's consuming you life,  The time we're alloted is too short to waste on hatered
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