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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ordinary. No reason you can't go in and give them a kiss goodnight, once you notice. That would be sweet. Doing something nice without expecting anything in return.[/quote]

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I do this with my son. He’ll usually come give me a hug or even flop on my bed to chat before bed, but when he doesn’t it’s ok. I’ll just go in and give him a quick kiss on the cheek or forehead, just like my parents used to do for me. My mom still does this when we stay with her; I always say goodnight as an adult, but she’ll still pop in and give me a kiss. I’ll even sometimes feel her come in and give me a kiss during the night when I’m asleep. Old habits die hard, I guess!

I don’t take it personally if my kid doesn't say goodnight. He’s exhausted. Full day of school. Two hours cross country practice, an hour or so of homework, and gaining height and muscle rapidly. He’s beyond exhausted and falls into bed.

It’s also a form of growing independence. But you could always say, “I’d love it if you gave me a chance to say good night before bed!” Maybe your kid doesn’t know you miss this? Let her know.

Fwiw, I don’t always remember to say good night to DH either. I get up an hour or two before him, so am usually in bed 1-2 hours earlier and fall asleep reading.[/quote]

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