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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't dump your trauma on a college student.

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Agree.

I think OP and a lot of posters are missing the point.  The man is the kids' father and the mom should try to avoid destroying that relationship.

I don't know why the man had an affair, but I many instances or even most, "we grew apart" is true, even if it's incomplete.  [/quote]

I do NOT want to destroy their relationship. As I posted up thread, they have always had some common interests they share, and their own relationship separate to the family unit. But instead of attempting to end things while putting in some work to reach a mutual understanding of each of our roles, he's just checking out and yes, gonna leave the heavy lifting to me. I don't think he has any tools to help him through this. He has isolated from his few long term friends over the past few years, so much so that they reach out to ME to see how he/we are doing. He's estranged from his family. Other than work and his side piece there isn't anyone in his life who is going to give him some perspective and ask him some tough questions. And we know his side piece is on Team Wife Is a Psycho Why Wouldn't He Dump Her Ass. It feels like a really bad Lifetime movie.[/quote]

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