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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][img][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]“ Our marriage is ok but we have our fair share of conflicts. I naively expected that my husband would be nicer to be during my pregnancy.”
To make sure I understand what you’re saying, you thought he would change because you’re pregnant?

In the words of Miguel Ruiz: 
“Imagine a perfect relationship. You are always intensely happy with your partner because you live with the perfect woman or man for you. How would you describe your life with this person? Well, the way you relate with this person will be exactly the way you relate with a dog. A dog is a dog. It doesn’t matter what you do, it’s going to be a dog. You are not going to change a dog for a cat or a dog for a horse; it is what it is. Just accepting this fact in your relations with other humans is very important. You cannot change other people. You love them the way they are or you don’t. You accept them the way they are or you don’t. To try to change them to fit what you want them to be is like trying to change a dog for a cat, or a cat for a horse. That is a fact. They are what they are; you are what you are. You dance or you don’t dance. You need to be completely honest with yourself — to say what you want, and see if you are willing to dance or not. You must understand this point, because it is very important. When you truly understand, you are likely to see what is true about others, and not just what you want to see.”[/quote]
Very helpful. Just get used to being disappointed. Amazing. [/quote]

That’s what you took from that??[/quote]
Yes????? What else were you supposed to take from that? [/quote]

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