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[quote=Anonymous]OP posts here are really not addressing your post divorce reality. Here’s the grass on the other side:
You work FT making it sounds like not much
You have at least and possibly at most 60% custody of a 3 yo and 6yo, to take care of alone without a second income and you working.
You may not be entitled to much childcare once younger one is in school
You likely have not been married long enough to have sizeable marital assets and likely have a large remaining mortgage that you likely cannot afford to buy your DH out of so will likely have to radically downsize
You will be exhausted for the next ten years and if you think you spend 95% of your time parenting now (with two kids in school and what sounds like a very part time flexible job) buckle up.
Possibly kids won’t remain in TT private
Goodbye fancy vacations and clothing/expenses budget you’re probably enjoying now
Yes there will be a stigma and many people will not befriend you or your kids while others will drop you
Not much time to date and pickings in a post kids world are slimmer and much more complex
You seem to think you can divorce and maintain your lifestyle: you won’t.

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