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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here: I’m being pathetic though. I’m cyber stalking and accidentally liking posts 🤦‍♀️ I don’t know what has come over me. I really need to get a grip but I’m struggling with it. Someone snap me out of it. I need to be told the truth[/quote]

Just really think it all the way through! Like .. we do sleep together. But we can never be together in public so we never really have a full-blown falling in love feeling, and also there is no future to imagine. Since the anticipation is satisfied,  all the tension sort of evaporates. Then one of our spouses finds out and tells the other. We are instantly disgusted with ourselves and blame the other person, and now they make us want to throw up. And our spouse kind of hates us. So we have no crush and a much worse marriage.

Or .. we do fall in love, and divorce our spouses to be together. Our kids despise our new partner for breaking up the family, and my relationship with my child will never be the same -- they pull away from me and seem disgusted. My step kids loathe me. And we have to deal with the same annoying life logistics just with a new person.

Never worth it. [/quote]

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