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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Threatening divorce is a di$% move and frankly it’s just a bluff you should call him on it. Go to couples therapy.  Any therapist will tell him to knock it off.  If he refuses couples therapy I would separate.  [/quote]

+1. Repeated threats of divorce to get his way is abusive and controlling. I think you should insist on couples therapy or separate. [/quote]

This. And if you think that your child is in a better position actually seeing/watching how abusive and controlling he is to you - I would suggest that you seek individual counseling asap.

You are allowing someone to take away all your agency - is that really the type of mom you want to show your child? Do you really want to model a relationship that means that you are silently suffering for some martyrdom of motherhood in the same house as this chaos? It's not okay. You staying for your child is an excuse. It's okay to be scared, but don't say it's for the kid. The kid would be better off looking up to someone who stands up for themselves and sharing custody (if he even steps up) is not the hell you think it is compared to your OP post.[/quote]

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