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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, you can say to your sister "I will visit less than once a month and I won't pay for anything", but she's not going to like it. And you can't be so un-involved and then expect and equal say over things, and still have a close sibling relationship. If your sister is going to do most of the visiting and paying, then she needs a setup that works for her, both in time and money. From what you've said, it does not sound like your mom's financial situation is very good. I hope there are more assets. If you don't have a firm grasp of what this is going to cost, study up.[/quote] I can either pay half for mom to live near sister and remain in the sisterhood or get divorced. It's probably that simple. Or, I can try to finangle things we're not thinking of (like mom using all her assets to move near sister) or somehow get my husband pay agree to help pay for some home care, when needed. That's what I'm here asking. [/quote]
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