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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]if you make your own money- If i were you i wouldnt file for divorce right off the bat.   i'd get a new job and apartment in a new place, quietly and sneakily furnish it and one day just drive there.  Live your life, see what his reaction is. If he calls you- just clamly say, you kept on saying i can leave. so i left, we are incompatible.  see what happens next.

Children are a LOT of work- he might not want custody. if, as i suspect, he will move his parents in to raise the kid if he opts for  custodial time, he'll have even less autonomy than he does now.  I know a jerk who left his wife with 4 kids b/c he just wasnt feeling it (in a super conservative Indian family0- said he never wanted an arranged marriage) and she has  kids 100%, started working as a teacher, has all the community support and is thriving.  Dont be afraid. you dont have to live like this.  honestly, living alone is soooo much better than living with an annoying husband. [/quote]

Talk to at least one lawyer before you do this. It could have serious implications for finances and custody.[/quote]

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