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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you are an avoidant woman, how should a man make you feel secure but not make you feel like he's coming in too strong?  This reminds me of some other threads about exclusivity.  Some women freak out if a man admits during the second one third day that he's also going on dates with other women, and they really freak out if he admits he's sleeping with other women.  But other women freak out if a man says he deleted his dating app or wants to be exclusive after only a few dates.

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Very simple - being available over the weekend; plan activities in advance; following through on his words. Eg if we met on Saturday and agreed to meet next week I don’t expect him to call every day for several hours. But creating a pleasant presence/feeling/reliability that  I’ve got his shoulder is nice. For example a nice short  text in the evening checking on my day; reaching out mid next week over the phone  to make plans. I get used to his presence and start trusting. Of course if he says he wants sex I should feel like it’s only with me he’s sleeping at that moment of time. I won’t ever get intimate if he’s inconsistent throughout the week (bait and switch tactics, playing games, lies etc). I have physical disgust even to kiss a guy if I feel he’s seeing others and I ask ahead of time. [/quote]

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