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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a divorced man and have been dating on and off for a few years.  I keep running into avoidant women. These are women who seem very interested in me but then they disappear or slam on the breaks.  They're not all avoidant in the same way.  Some of them go to bed with me, very suddenly, and then disappear at least for a while. Over the years, a few of these women have practically sprinted out of my home after sex, even though they obviously liked it (an eventually wanted to do it again). Some women have gazed into my eyes like we are about to start the romance of the century, but then they shut everything down at exactly the moment when things would start to get physical. A couple of them told me they wanted to be "just friends" but then I later figured out that they were upset or hurt because I didn't keep pursuing them.  (One of them told me this herself, a year after I got the "just friends" speech, and I heard it from the friend of the other one.)  Some of these avoidant women are celibate but I think most of them probably aren't.  I know a few just have secret or long distance romances with men who won't get too close.  I thought men were supposed to be the avoidant ones...       [/quote]

You must give off creep vibes.

Womanizer, liar, alcoholic, misogynist, flakey. Pick your poison.[/quote]

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