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[quote=Anonymous]When I was with XH and we started couples counseling, XH said he wanted more sex because it helped him feel closer to me emotionally. So I put out weekly, with the exception of postpartum. Even leading up to the separation. I was in my 30s and truly believed I could be happy without having sex ever again.

I never felt XH was emotionally safe. Sex felt like a chore and I could only O in one position and would fantasize about other people and situations while it was happening. We never cuddled afterward.

Fast forward to separation and dating. I actually have a high libido. My new partner and I are very emotionally connected. I’ve never felt so taken care of and safe. I O multiple times. Plus my O’s now always include female ejaculation. I want sex frequently, almost nightly if I don’t have too much work. Sometimes we go multiple times.

Libido for women is very mental and emotional, I read a book on female sexuality (can’t recall title atm) and also desire needs to be stoked (Esther Perel).[/quote]

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