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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't ask their salaries but I do pre-screen for their lifestyle and similarities of interests early on. It could be that the person is super cheap and then we won't be able to travel at a comfort level I'm used to, even if splitting expenses. Or, they could be wealthy but we have little in common: I like jazz concerts and site seeing and they only travel to ski in Aspen and have no interest in international destinations, and so on[/quote]
Stay single. [/quote]

I am happily single. It will take someone really worldly, interesting and open minded to get me enter a relationship. I've dated for couple years post divorce: regretfully [b]most men out there are just a deadweight for an energetic, economically independent and active woman. [/b]I want to do things, see the world, work on my career and not constantly yield to someone with limited interests and resources 
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If he doesn't bring something significant to the table at least equal to what I do, then it's not worth it to me.[/quote]

Of course it's not. You are a woman and woman practice hypergamy. They don't want to admit it on this forum but in the real world is true. Women want ready made men. 
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No, I actually dated men who were making less than myself, but only when I saw they had a realistic ability to grow with me. If he wanted to invent new trading technologies at night as a main source of income and never traveled to Europe (even at airbnbs) that's not my person. OLD is full of these types. I am NOT this type: have $5mm NW to my name, a good education, profession, already worked in several countries in investment banking in my 20s. [/quote]

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