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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pay off your house with your huge salaries, then you won't have these convos.[/quote] It isn't going to be that simple. If she really considers his behavior at all times, she's likely to find he's passive-aggressive and makes "joke threats" about other subjects too. Maybe those "jokes" just haven't been as obvious or triggered her as much as the threat about the mortgage does. But it seems unlikely that someone who makes these kinds of comments does it focused solely on one topic. There's probably a deeper problem there with him. I'd be concerned that he's modeling this way of "joking" for any kids they have. It's a horrible, toxic way to communicate, and usually involves gaslighting the other person to convince them that "it wasn't as bad as you think, you're overreacting, I didn't say it in THAT tone...."[/quote]
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