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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He can’t be sleeping in that late if he organizes his life around a 9:30 workout. It’s not like he’s sleeping til noon and sitting around like a lump all day.[/quote]

Kids have to be at school by 7-8:30.  He doesn't have to sleep til noon to avoid the morning rush, just sleep past all of the wake up /breakfast /out the door chaos.  Her issue doesn't seem to be that he's too well-rested, it's that he's not helping where help would be useful but just prioritizing himself and his preferred schedule.[/quote]

What would she like him to do for their middle schooler and high schooler in the morning? I wake up when my high schoolers do and I just sit and the kitchen table and drink coffee while they buzz around.  [/quote]

He's saying there's shuttling to be done.  That's from him, not her.  So he could . . . do that.  But he can't if he's asleep every morning when dropoff needs to happen.  You're trying to compare you waking up with your kids and not having to help them brush their teeth with him not even waking up in the morning at all, and saying it's fine to do one if it's fine to do the other.   So what if OP chose not to wake up either?  Since middle schoolers need so little supervision, that should be fine, right?  [/quote]

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