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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh, now he wants to be Mr Mom, when they are 12 and 15 and almost completely self sufficient. Fascinating.[/quote]

Yes - this also gets me.. He was so absent when I needed him. He went to the office before they went to school and came home after dinner. He never made an effort to help on a daily basis with the kids. [/quote]

You mean he was working long hours being the person you wanted him to be and providing you the life you wanted? You can't both complain that he's unattractive when he's present and that he was absent when he was acting the way you find attractive.

He burned himself out being the kind of man you're attracted to and now he wants out. I don't blame him; that life is miserable.[/quote]
Agreed. OP doesn't seem to know what she wants - whatever her DH did wasn't good enough. She wanted drive and ambition? When she had it, apparently she was pissed he wasn't home enough. Now when he's home? She's unattracted to him because he has no drive and is around too much  :roll: It's worse than wanting your cake and eating it too - she is eating the cake and then complaining about getting too fat! [/quote]

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