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[quote=Anonymous]Your mother is a monster just like your brother. At least you find out now before letting her hold the baby or giving her photos.

You should tell your husband. It seems like he has been supportive, and newborn days are hard enough to get through, he needs to know that you’re dealing with even more than normal. Your doctor or therapist should know too. Not details but just that there was SA from the family (yes by allowing it to happen I would say that your mother SA you) and that they’ve been putting pressure on you to resume contact. You’re going to need a lot of support over the next few months and it will probably get harder before it gets easier. You know what to do now though and at least when your mom dies without a relationship with your child, you won’t need to feel bad or wonder if you should have given her another chance..

Once you feel strong enough (might take a while), I would also consider asking DH to track down your brothers kids and let them know about the SA. Even if he’s not abusing them directly, they need to know not to have sleepovers etc and eventually how to keep their own children safe from him.[/quote]

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