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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd be upset but it was only a matter of time before she mentioned a grandchild to him. You say it would have been better earlier during pregnancy, and you also say you wanted it later. But regardless, he was going to find out. I would not excuse your mother but it sounds like you knew he would find out so this is really a matter of timing and higher emotions. Its very hard to hide the existence of a child from a relative if another is speaking to them regularly. I would block your brother from contacting you. That would have solved the issue of you hearing from him.  [/quote]

DH kept saying that during pregnancy that even without my mom someone would tag a photo or something. Or eventually they would talk to so and so and people don't think to not say something. I don't know what I would have wanted. I think I expected if my mom wasn't going to respect this boundary she would have done so earlier during pregnancy? Her timing just hurts so much more and feels hate filled whether it is or not. My brother has been blocked - he texted from a different # and signed off with his name. He wanted to make sure I knew it was him and he knew. Even his text you should have told me. When we haven't spoken in years and he knows why[/quote]

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