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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am sorry that she did not respect your wishes OP.

Your own mothers betrayal on the day(s) that you become one yourself is a deep wound. She has chosen, and you need to choose your family now. I would also caution against the thinking that you couldnt protect your own child. This is about you and your mother. Now you know who you need to protect yourself from. And by protecting yourself, you protect your child(ren).

Wishing you a safe and swift recovery from your c-section/delivery.

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Thank you. My mother has been letting me downy whole life in various ways but this one does feel like a wound and the tears are overwhelming if I let myself think about it. The hormone shift and broken sleep doesn't help but I think I used to make a lot of excuses for her- and try to justify some of her behavior to me. But her knowing why we had this boundary in place and putting herself first and not thinking of me or this baby during this time is heartbreaking. The mom I wanted to have was never going to be. It's crazy because I look at this little 10 day old and never want her to feel discomfort or hurt and I can't imagine doing/saying the things my mother have throughout my life [/quote]

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