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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This entire thread is like a commercial for abstinence before marriage.[/quote]

I agree.  And I know I will get flamed, but I don't care.

Sex is meant to make two humans beings become one.  Physiologically, biochemically, really intense bonding happens, especially for a woman.  In fact, science is only beginning to understand how profoundly our bodies were designed for that bond.

So when that bond is not monogamous and lifelong, there are consequences.  We see them all the time.  Like in this thread.  Like all over DCUM.

The best sex a woman can ever possibly experience is with a man she trusts with her life.  Her physical climax is directly related to how safe, protected, and secure she feels, because her stress hormones need to be low in order for the oxytocin and dopamine and endorphins to reach their peaks.  And a curious thing about those "love" hormones?  They actually make a woman forget physical and emotional distress.  That's why women who have unmedicated childbirth remember little of labor afterwards.

So a woman who bonded intensely, physically, to a man in the past will easily remember the good because her brain is erasing the bad.  That would be helpful in a committed relationship with the father of your children, because it would be easier to overlook your husband's faults.  It is NOT helpful when you fantasize about past sexual partners.

Gosh, I hope I can teach my daughters all these things so they make better decisions than I did![/quote]

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