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[quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry, OP. My brother abused me as a child (though not sexually) and my parents were aware and pretended it wasn’t happening. To this day they cannot admit it and respond with anger, even though he became a violent, permanently unemployed adult with various mental health diagnoses so it’s very clear I was not making it up. I was no contact with my mother for a decade once I confronted all this in therapy. I will never forgive her. It took me a very long time to grieve the loss and understanding I never had a mother who cared enough about me to take my side and protect me. Start this process as soon as you’re able with a therapist. Cut all contact with your mother and join online support groups for others who’ve done so so that you can stay strong. Block her number, block her email, block on social media, and ask your husband to check the mail and just throw away anything from her without telling you. You are protecting your daughter. This is not your fault. Your daughter will be fine.[/quote]
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