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[quote=Anonymous]The problem imo is that you see yourself as some sort of referee or policeman of other people. This is a person you don’t know and don’t want to see again. Just have a coffee and go home. Or, if you are offended and want to go home, make an excuse and leave. “I don’t think this is going to turn into a relationship and I don’t want to waste your time tonight. Good luck with your search.” And then leave. The fact that you feel it’s appropriate to call out someone you don’t know, for what? That’s probably a big part of why you’re single. If I were the girl of your dreams on the next barstool and I watched that interaction, I would never go out with you, because I would think you were unkind and just unnecessary/not strategic. But if you turned around and asked me to have a drink, I wouldn’t say that. I would just say “thank you I’m flattered but otherwise engaged” or something. Because it’s not my job to call you out![/quote]
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