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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, feel free to ignore the toxic guilt trippers. They have no idea what this situation is like and simply can’t fathom the levels of abuse some parents do to their own children. Have you done individual therapy? I think this might be helpful for you to sort through these complicated emotions. But ultimately, she is not your responsibility. The neighbours are free to step back if they choose, they are not your responsibility either. I really like 4:56’s reply. This is also a great example of why people who have children just to have a caretaker in old age are f***ed in the head. You can’t treat your children like sh*t and expect them to fall over themselves to care for you unconditionally.[/quote] Funny thing is, she never took care of her own parents! She completely abandoned them and let her siblings do all the heavy lifting. Yet she was very offended they left her almost nothing in their wills. For her to expect us to take care of her is just "rich". [/quote] Your mother hasn’t asked anything of you, this is about the neighbor’s request.[/quote]
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