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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you give some examples?[/quote] [b]Vile and baseless insults, really crazy stuff.[/b] Not going to repeat them here but [b]nothing a civilized person would say.[/b][/quote] The bold is seriously abusive. There is no healthy way to stay in this kind of environment, particularly if you have children. There may be an underlying physical or mental health cause (brain tumor? bipolar?), but that is unlikely. Way more likely that your abuser has been increasing boundary violations over time, slowing testing how much he can manipulate you via "coercive control" (google it). Some abusers don't get really abusive until their victim is firmly locked down by mortgage and kids and feelings of love and family obligation and thus less likely to leave. [/quote]
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