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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like say that there are other people who didn't get food instead AT THE MOMENT instead of talking about it for years[/quote]

What if the person would get hurt from you pointing out that other people haven’t eaten yet and throw a hissy fit about it? Would you subject everyone at the event to that?

Let’s say if you say that to your sil she’ll force her husband and kids to leave the event, and your in laws would give you an attitude because their son and grandchildren left, and they won’t interact with your kids appropriately and then your kids are hurt. …[/quote]

Let people tell whatever stories about themselves they want to tell, pp. This dynamic you've created (in your head) where you play the alleged martyr by keeping quiet about the great injustice, only to then go about spreading the gossip later, is pathological.

What if the person, instead of throwing a "hissy fit" as you suggest, simply responded "Oh, thanks! I didn't know" and all was well?

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You answer my scenario first, then I’d answer yours.

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I already did: Let people tell whatever stories about themselves they want to tell, pp.

If the person in the wrong wants to throw a fit about being told the problem, let them.
If she forces her husband and kids to leave, let them leave.
If the in-laws get butthurt and choose to take it out on the grandkids, let them.

Let people tell on themselves.[/quote]

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