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[quote=Anonymous]Went through 12 years of this and now divorced. That is what this leads to unless something changes. However that’s not to say that you can expect your DH to automatically become attentive to what needs to be done. He does need to be honest about how the current situation is unfair to you - mine never could be, which is a big reason we fell apart. Then YOU need to be more assertive and proactive about scheduling your day for more parity by dividing up work in a way that gives him a better chance of doing it (like you clearly agree he will handle dinner/bath/dishes 2 days a week while you go to yoga). But everything depends on him being able to be honest, able to hold to his commitments, and you being able to give up the expectation that he will do it automatically. [/quote]
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