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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]explosive child is the worst. it will not help you. watch dr becky read raising lions[/quote] The Ross Green book can actually help in some situations. You learn that there are 3 ways to respond. (1) If it is a safety issue, then you have to respond quickly. (2) If there is an issue that can be compromised, then offer two choices, or two times to do a chore. They will almost always pick the later time but then you can remind them of your agreement. (3) There are some things that just aren’t worth responding to at all. This could be something like not eating something they don’t like. This won’t work with all kids. It did work for our son when he was younger. The two choices are something that some teachers will do but others will find annoying. Some teachers joked that our son could be a salesman or a lawyer because he developed such good negotiating skills. It decreased his outbursts until he was old enough to talk through issues.[/quote]
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